Ashamed of being plus size

6 answers /

Last post: 26/02/2024 at 12:07 pm

CHANELLE M(24)
Chanelle M(24)
23/02/2024 at 5:42 pm

Hi everyone,


Sorry this is a bit of a moan


I've never been a slim woman but since I had my first baby I've been a little more plus size shall we say and I've had some awful comments from strangers and even some family. It's really knocked my confidence and it's made me wonder should I really be that ashamed of my body?


I've attached a pic my friend took fairly recently


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SKYE D(11)
Skye D(11)
24/02/2024 at 12:46 am

No you shouldn't its just weight you can lose and ppl shouldn't be commenting. If you started eating well and walking u will lose it. But if your happy the way you are sod everyone else x

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REID Y
Reid Y
24/02/2024 at 1:02 pm

Hey Chanelle,

stop thinking about your body as a burden…no matter your size, your weight..be positive and confident in yourself and tell yourself you ARE BEAUTIFUL 🤩. Those who say negative things are jealous of what you have, they see you as a threat , so try to put you down! Ignore them from now on, you don’t need negative vibes around you

YOUR NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL, EMBRACE IT

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CHANELLE M(24)
Chanelle M(24)
25/02/2024 at 8:17 am
In answer to
Skye D(11)

No you shouldn't its just weight you can lose and ppl shouldn't be commenting. If you started eating well and walking u will lose it. But if your happy the way you are sod everyone else x

Thanks Skye, yeah I was perfectly happy how I am until I heard all that x

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CHANELLE M(24)
Chanelle M(24)
25/02/2024 at 8:21 am
In answer to
Reid Y

Hey Chanelle,

stop thinking about your body as a burden…no matter your size, your weight..be positive and confident in yourself and tell yourself you ARE BEAUTIFUL 🤩. Those who say negative things are jealous of what you have, they see you as a threat , so try to put you down! Ignore them from now on, you don’t need negative vibes around you

YOUR NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL, EMBRACE IT

Aw thanks Reid that's very sweet! I've never seen myself as naturally beautiful really and it's hard to ignore the comments, but I'll try haha x

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DEMI A(3)
Demi A(3)
26/02/2024 at 12:07 pm

In my eyes no such thing as a perfect body ! I use to be big and lost the weighted and to be honest being big didn't make me happy but lossing the weight made things worse as I couldn't stop and I started to look like a smack head 😳 only u can make it self happy in life so love every part of it ! And as for family if they ain't got noting nice to say then they shouldn't say noting at all !

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