Child been kicked out of two nurseries
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Last post: 25/02/2024 at 9:19 am
So for the last year my child, now 3, nearly 4, had been showing challenging behaviour. Mainly being aggressive (throwing and hitting) when he doesn’t get his own way. As a result he got excluded from one nursery in the autumn and a second a couple months later
ive since got a place in a school nursery but with his history they’ll only take him with someone coming with him to supervise
my question is, what happens sept when he goes to school? This is sustainable, I work full time and winging this at the moment as a long lunch break.
Hes been referred to CAMHS but that can take 2 years. But what do we do in the meantime?
They may say they can't meet child's need if hurting other children and may need go to a more specialised school. They have lots of children to teach so can't be constantly watching one and stopping class etc. It maybe a phase have u asked why the child does this used reward charts etc took away good things etc
Hi mumofone2017
I'm Catherine, one of the Parent Supporters here at Netmums. Thanks for reaching out. You are worried about your child's behaviour having an impact when he starts school. Mumofone2017, are you able to chat openly to school about your concerns and worries? You could ask them about their policies for managing and promoting positive behaviour and how they have supported children in the past. You are currently waiting for CAMHS but I wonder if nursery or your health visitor could offer support in the meantime or signpost you to local charities? Have you heard of Homestart? They are a charity who support families and it may be worth exploring if they could offer any support: Things Home-Start can help you with. You might also find the resources on Family Lives website helpful so I'll link it here: Behaviour | Family Lives
Take care
Catherine
